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What is gay but not gay?

A friend so close, you can send nudes and they'll either compliment you in a way that's uplifting, and not sexual, or they'll make fun of you because they're an asshole. The will talk about the guys you talk to, and act like they want in their pants, bends most of them want in your pants. It's a balancement for you. Your gay but not gay best friend, would reply to a random person who attempts to get with you, or they would reply to nudes someone random has sent you. They will probably roast you from time to time because of the mistakes you've made. Which friends don't remind other friends of their mistakes, but a gay but not gay BEST friend will, so perhaps you'll be reminded, and learn from the mistakes you've made. If one of your exes that cheated on you tries to get back with you... you're gay but not gay best friend will confront him, so you don't have to say anything. A gay but not gay best friend, is a friend for life. Cherish them, and call them an asshole from time to time. Can also be pronounced (Not Gay But Gay Best Friend)

My Gay But Not Gay Best Friend told my ex to fuck off, and suck on a STD infested clit.

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gay but not gay - video


Gay but not gay - what is it?

It means that the historians were wrong and the dudes sucking eachothers dicks are NOT 'buddie buddies' or 'dudes being bros'.

(Person 1 and 2 Witness a really homosexual thing)
Person 1: those dudes are definitely fruity.
Person 2: yeah, they are Gay Gay Homosexual Gay.

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What does "gay but not gay" mean?

"gay-googling" or "gay-gling". when you are searching something online or texting people to find out what's going on ......"this wkend".

What's going on this weekend? Where are the pool parties this wkend? I am still gay-googling or gay-gling.

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Gay but not gay - what does it mean?

Chanted when someone or certain actions are gay, usually used by queer people on tumblr and twitter. Originated from an edited screenshot of a Yu-Gi-Oh character whispering "I can still hear his voice..." with another Yu-Gi-Oh character behind him chanting "gay gay homosexual gay"

Friend 1: Wow Jean and Lisa canonically live together and cook dinner for each other
Friend 2: gay gay homosexual gay

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Gay but not gay - meaning

someone who is very gay

I always knew Ricky Martin was the gayest gay to ever gay, but none of my friends believed me.

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Gay but not gay - definition

The phrase "gay people are gay" is a self-explanatory tautology, as well as a paradoxical statement. Gay people technically are gay, but at the same time the pejorative use of gay also leads some very sensitive people to conclude the opposite. Hence, it's paradoxical.

Bobo: "gay people are gay"

Kiki: "WTF DID YOU JUST SA— hey wait a minute, that's actually true"

Bobo: "hah, gotee"

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Gay but not gay - slang

A statement that encompasses all ranges of an undesired outcome. The event or occurrance could be classified as having some redeeming merit, but overall still sucking, to being a complete waste of time where mockery is not only assured, but mandated. It's also equivilates to "lame to pretty lame."

Guy 1: So I went to that new Magiquest place at the mall, and you get to use magic wands and point them at things to get spells and gold. It's like playing Harry Potter with a Wiimote in a Lazer Tag arena!

Guy 2: Dude, that sounds Gay to Pretty Gay.

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Gay but not gay

An adage used as a psychological tool to expose bias.

The key portion is the last word, which used in this context can be interpreted either as a statement of truth (i.e. oranges are orange) or as a pejorative insult (Those shoes are gay). Essentially it will trigger people who are easily triggered. The point of doing this is to show that an inherently unbiased statement is interpreted by the individual to follow their own rationale, often time exposing their bias towards negative interpretation.

Similar to "It's okay to be white".

heilhonkler tweets: "Gay people are gay."

rando tweets: "@Twitter why do you continue to allow homophobic hate speech on your platform? People like this are despicable and should be banned."

*outrage ensues*

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Gay but not gay

Basically your gay but your not lesbian or gay but you gay in your words.

Me:Omg im so gay
Bestie:samee im gay but not gay

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Gay but not gay

A person who has gay tendencies, attracts all the same homosexual gender, and sometimes dresses gay but is heterosexual.

I wish Dylan wasn’t such a gay, but not gay person. I’d totally date him.

Kelly is gay but not gay with her Tom boy looks.

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