Definder - what does the word mean?

What is grab a coffee?

A code word for male-male anal sex. ‘Let’s grab coffee’ is essentially the same as saying ‘let’s put our private parts together in a fun gay way’. Not everyone will get what the phrase really means, though, some people ask it in church settings to evangelize and welp

Oh my gosh, I just met this really cute guy, things moved fast, and we’re grabbing coffee on Tuesday!!!

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grab a coffee - video


Grab a coffee - what is it?

A proposition for sex with a member of the LGBTQ+ community.

Any and all "gay" sex acts.

Straight people "Netflix and chill", fabulous people "let's grab coffee".

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What does "grab a coffee" mean?

Is code for sex

"Hey maybe we could grab a coffee sometime?"

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