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What is pick me boy?

a pick me boy is a dude who wants a gurl to "pick him" by saying certain words to manipulate and annoy a girl. No one likes a pick me boy, don't me a pick me boy.

pick me boy: you're so pretty and amazing.. I don't even know why you're talking to me 🥺
normal gurl: aww don't say that! You're my friend!
pick me boy: we're just friends? I knew it, why would someone so amazing like you date me... I'm just a nobody 😢
normal gurl: hmm I thought we were friends, what's up with this whole thing?
pick me boy: I'm not good enough for you or anyone.. I wouldn't even wanna date me.. *cries*
normal gurl: ...
pick me boy: 😤😤😤 *stomps and be sad, then returns to chase the gurl*

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pick me boy - video


Pick me boy - what is it?

A pick me boy is the male equivalent of a pick me girl. These are types of guys that emotionally manipulate and gaslight girls by using self deprecating language in the hopes of the girl contradicting them. They will often mention how ugly they are and wait for the girl to disagree. If the girl disagrees then they will take that a sign the girl is into them and will be overly pushy my confessing their attraction or asking them out. If the girl rejects them they will become angry and say how nice guys always finish last and all girls are the same.

*ATTENTION

IF YOUR A PICK ME BOY, THE REASON GIRLS DON’T LIKE YOU IS YOU AREN'T ACTUALLY NICE. YOU USE NICE BEHAVIOUR TO TRY TO GET WITH THEM

Example of how a pick me boy conversation would go. (PMB AND GIRL PAIRED TOGETHER IN GROUP PROJECT)
PMB= Hey 🥺 sorry you had to pair with me 🥺🥺 you wouldn’t otherwise. I’m so ugly 😥
Girl= it’s fine, your not ugly
PMB= really. 🥺🥺 your so nice. Notice how I complimented your personality and not your body. Because I respect women.

Girl=thanks I guess..
PMB= do you wanna go out with me?
Girl= um no thanks I have a boyfriend
PMB= what! This whole time you spoke to me like a normal human you had a boyfriend! All women are the same. Females just don’t like nice guys 🥺🥺🥺

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What does "pick me boy" mean?

Boys that use "🥺😞😣" etc. or simply bash on themselves to try and make u feel bad about them, will occasionally gaslight u as well

just run from the pick me boys, run fast

pick me boys can be defined and spotted with

ex: “no one will ever like me 😔"
ex: "I won’t bother u again”
ex: “it’s okay im used to rejection”
ex: “without me?🥺😏”

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Pick me boy - what does it mean?

The male equivalent of a pick me, another definition is a pick he

Avoid these people at all costs, they use emotional manipulation and guilt tripping to get their way, and obsessed over how they aren't like other guys.

Example of how pick me boys interact with girls:
boy: hi🥺
Girl: hello
Boy: i know you probably wont want to since i am so ugly, but would you want to date me? I am not like other guys 🥺
Girl: no i have a boyfriend
Boy: i understand, im just too ugly, all girls are the same
Girl: ...
Boy: i see you left me on read, nice guys never get picked...

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Pick me boy - meaning

A guy who uses self depreciation in a manipulative way so a girl will date him. They will say bad things about themselves to try to get the girl to oppose what they’ve said.

Pick me guy: hey 🥺
Girl: hi
Pick me guy: you’re so pretty! You probably won’t like me though I’m so ugly
Girl: no, you’re not ugly! I’m sure someone likes you
Pick me boy: really? Do you think I’m cute!
Girl: I don’t really know you, but I’m sure you’re really sweet
Pick me boy: I knew it, you hate me. It’s ok, you can leave. I’m used to it 🥺
Girl:

Pick me boy: you left me on read lol
Girl:
Pick me boy: showering without you :(
Girl:
Pick me boy: u lefts me in read again lol 🥺

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Pick me boy - definition

its literally titty tom

titty tom is such a self-deprecating pick me boy

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Pick me boy - slang

a pick me boy is a guy who are desperate for a girl to date them

a pick me boy is a guy who are desperate for a girl to date them

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Pick me boy

A male who puts himself down in front of women just to get compliments. Fishes for attention, and technically manipulates a girl to be with him.

Pick me boy- Hi! You're so pretty... but you probably think I'm ugly. I'll just leave you alone...

Female- Aw, thank you! I don't think you're ugly at all.

Pick me boy- Wait, you don't think I'm ugly? Does that mean you want to date?!

Female- Uhh, sorry no. But, I'm sure there's someone out there who's perfect for you!

Pick me boy- I knew you hated me... 🥺

Female- …

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Pick me boy

basically paul

if anyone asks what a pick me boy is, its basically paul.

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Pick me boy

A guy who try's to get girls by saying things like "I'm too nice", "girls don't like nice guys like me", "I'm so ugly", and others of the sort. They claim to be different and how nobody likes them as or how ugly they are as a "flirty" move to kind of force the girl to have to say "you're not ugly...." just so they can take it and say "so you think I'm hot, I've been meaning to tell you that I like you". Will also call you names if you reject them after that line. Moral of the story pick me guys are lowkey just as annoying as pick me girls and usually catch feeling REALLY fast.

"hi🥺" -guy
"uhh hi" -girl
"omg you answered🥺 no one ever talks to me🥺" -guy
"ohhhh.... um (has no clue how to respond) -girl
"I'm so ugly thats why girls don't like me and I'm just too nice🥺" -guy
"oh... uh... you're not ugly ig..." -girl
"so I'm hot, do you like me🥺" -guy
"not like that..." -girl
"OMG TGIS IS EHY NO ONE LIKES YOU, LITTERALLY YOUR SICH A B**** AND YOUR SO EASY, I NRVER LOKED YOU AMYWAYS" -guy (I spelt things wrong on purpose for this dude)

this a normal convo with a "pick me boy"

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