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What is Pick Me Girl?
An insult aimed at any woman that doesn't mindlessly follow feminist dogma. It can also be used by feminists as a generic insult towards any woman they don't personally like, regardless of the political ideology of the woman being insulted. It is similar to "incel" or "nazi" by which it's meant to undermine any counter made to progressive rhetoric by labelling the critic something negative instead of actually engaging with the argument in good faith.
Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Eg. 1:
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."
B: "Found the pick me girl lol.
Eg. 2:
A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."
B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
Pick Me Girl - video
Pick Me Girl - what is it?
A girl who seeks validation from men. They often act different around men than they do girls, their catch phrases could be something like: "I'm not like other girls, I don't like dresses, don't wear makeup and I AM NOT dramatic!" or "I'm not like other girls, I hang out with boys/men because their less problematic!" etc. Some say things like: "OMG, I'm SOOO tiny compared to you, STOOPPPP ITTTT!". There are 2 types of pick me girls, one who acts like a girly girl and refers as a small person compared to the guy she's talking to, or the tomboy-ish one who seeks men validation by 'acting like one of the boys' when she's clearly not.
Example 1:
Normal Girl: Ugh, I was up all night trying to find a good makeup look for the party and-
Pick Me Girl: Oh, really?! Could never be me, I don't wear makeup, I'm too natural and definitely not a 'try hard' so that's why I don't wear that stuff.
Normal Girl: Umm...Okay.
Example 2:
*Talking To A Guy*
Pick Me Girl: OMG! STOOOPP! You know I'm tinier than you so stop bullying me, owy...omg, look at how tiny my hands are compared to yours, let's do a hand comparison-
Guy: Yeah, NO. Let's not do that, in fact, let's not talk at all-
What does "Pick Me Girl" mean?
A pick me girl is a insecure girl who claims they are always "one of the guys" and insults other women around their "crush". (basically any girl called Ava or Ren or Jay)
Pick me girl - "Oh my god, you saw what layla posted yesterday about her dog dying and how she "doesn't want anyone to talk to her about it"? She is so looking for attention from luke. I know exactly what lukes type is because I'm one of the guys."
Deadass example based on some shit I actually heard irl 😭
Pick Me Girl - what does it mean?
A weird and cringe label that girls call other girls probably because they're upset that they can't get a man themselves. Originally supposed to be like the female version of a simp but now basically used for any woman who doesn't spend all their energy being triggered about the existence of men.
Girl 1: I hate men men are trash
Girl 2: I actually like men most of the ones I know are great
Girl 1: OMG you're such a pick me girl
Pick Me Girl - meaning
A slang term used to shame women for being different and not “normal” to society. Also used to shame women for having just guy friends because obviously that’s a bad thing now.
Example 1:
Jane: I only have guy friends because I have more in common with them and I’ve known them for years
Sandra: Omg you’re such a pick me girl
Example 2:
Jane: I don’t like makeup because it’s hard to use and take off
Sandra: Omg you’re a pick me girl
Example 3:
Jane: I want to try and play basketball, I’ve seen so many people do it on social media so I think it would be fun to try
Sandra: PICK ME GIRL
Pick Me Girl - definition
Essentially, it is a girl with internalized misogyny that is willing to turn against her own gender for the attention and approval of men. They ignore blatantly sexist behavior, even sometimes participating as to not seem unfunny or uncool. They also try their best to separate themselves from "other girls" because they see other girls as bad or basic compared to themselves, who are inherently special and therefore deserve male attention.
Guy: *makes sexist comment*
Girls: wow that's rude wtf
Pick me girl: lol, it's just a joke. Girls can't take jokes lololol!!! This is why I only hang out with guys, girls are too dramatic. *immediately checks to see if the male agrees with her*
Pick Me Girl - slang
a pick me girl is someone who wants attention from "the boys". she always pointes out that she's one of the boys and that she craves the attention from everyone else except the girls. she thinks that she's diffrent from the other girls and that she's TOO unique. If you're a pick me girl, nobody likes you.
example:
normal girl: i think im gonna wear makeup for prom! Justin is taking me.
pick me girl: you wear makeup omgg! JUSTIN COME HERE! I never wear makeup its too girly, im one of the boys and were all wearing tuxes together right Justin?
Justin: Uhhh- no who said that?
other example:
Guy: I cant handle girl drama
Pick me girl: Omg SAMEEEE!!! the girls are too much drama i cant handle them!
Guy: But you're a gi-
Pick me girl: NO IM NOT JUSTIN BOO IM A SMOL BEAN
Pick Me Girl
A narcissist girl who thinks she’s all it and usually hangs with males because apparently women are “too girly”
Person L: I promise it’s my real sneeze!!!1!1!!
Person W: Goddamn you’re such a pick me girl, all you do is complain about the boys teasing you.
Pick Me Girl
Its a tomboy. Thats it Twitter feminazis get big mad over it though
twitter:We gotta break gender roles and stereotypes
Tomboys:Hello
Twiiter:PICK ME GIRL REEEEEE
Pick Me Girl
A pick me girl is a girl who typically hangs out with guys purely because she craves validation from them (often due to daddy issues) she will purposely change her behaviour when around a group of boys and most likely point out your insecurities or secrets you told her personally and make fun of you in-front of them. They will brag about how they are “natural” and how they do things “girls wouldn’t normally do” like claim to skate or play sports. (they most likely suck) they also continuously speak aloud about how “hanging out with guys is easier because its less drama” when in actual fact girls don’t claim her because of how fucking annoying she is and she has lost all of her friends due to the pick me girl exposing them in-front of stupid ass boys. You probably know one in real life. Drop them immediately if they do. This also come from internalised misogyny. Some appear on tik tik, disagreeing with feminist and bashing other women just for them to get some buzz from boys telling her in the comments “we found a good on boys” “woah a funny woman for once” either way stay away from these girls they’re fucking annoying and will literally add to each and every insecurity you have keep your head up queen.
*being nice to your face* *group of boys who probably don't even like her that much come over”
“hiiii guyysss! omg no yeah we were just talking about how *insert name* needs to fix her makeup! yeah like I wouldn’t know because I dont wear ANY makeup like i’m so natural and I’m too busy gaming to wear makeup ahahah!”
Josh : “*under breath* I bet shes not even that good”
Pick me Girl: *touches arm*
“omg josshhh stoppp ahahah stopp no literally like I love minecraft yeah like I found diamonds yesterday like omg like yeah are you proud? *fake laugh* ahaha yeah”
Pick me girl to ‘friend’: I swear like you wear loads of makeup right? omg YEAH its to cover up your ACNE right? yeah my skin is so clear because i clearly dont wear makeup so I DONT have that problem but like yeah you kinda need makeup...i can still kind of see it... *looks to boys for approval”