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What is good trans?
When someone expects a transperson to be a kind, considerate, ever-compassionate, long-suffering, patient educator on the simplest of things relating to the "Trans Experience." Up to and including: googling common search terms, offering incredibly personal information re: surgery, HRT, and presentation at the drop of the hat, and being 'understanding' when they out us to people without our consent.
I really hate it when cis acquaintances expect me to play Good Trans to satiate their morbid curiosity. Don't they know we have a right privacy too?